And if it isn’t, you might be in trouble.
Take it from someone who made the mistake of getting involved with a married man…a unhappily married man. (more…)
Month: May 2016
Boring sex vs no sex at all – a man’s perspective
(Note from Mel – this post was written by friend, H. Samoth. H is a pretty good writer, but still a bit gun shy about writing publicly. This is his first foray into blogging…be nice!)
By H. Samoth
I love my wife. And I enjoy having sex with her. She is the only woman I have ever loved like this and is the only woman I want to ever love like this. Yet, I desire more from our sex life. We have been together for over 26 years and I am just as attracted to her today as I was 26 years ago. I still want her. I still daydream about her at work to the point where I can’t even walk away from my desk due to fear of embarrassment from the imprint on of my pants. When she showers and puts on that itty-bitty robe, blood gushes to my member and all sorts of thoughts fill my mind. I think about taking her all sorts of ways. From behind, from the side, her on top riding me or just my tongue deep in her sweet spot. Yeah, she still turns me on like nobody’s business. (more…)
Wives…word of advice: appreciate your man
There is one post that I have been wanting to write for a few years now — a post to married women from the divorce woman’s perspective. (more…)
If only…
If only I’d paid attention to you in high school. If I’d noticed how much you noticed me. How attentive you were…
If only I’d caught you watching me…maybe you were wondering what it would be like to get to know me. To talk to me, to date me, to kiss me.
If only I’d been nicer to you. If I hadn’t lumped you in with all of the other guys my age who were nimrods, irritating or arrogant.
If only I’d noticed YOU before any other girl did.
Is it REALLY all about sex for men? (Part III)
Honestly, I can’t blame Eddie… For whatever reason, when it comes to online dating, I attract and/or go for the same guy: the one who is unavailable be it physically, emotionally or both. I end up settling for scraps when I know better. I know I deserve more.
Eddie, is really Eddie 2.0 and I’ll explain why later. True, he’s been candid with me that he isn’t ready for a relationship, he needs to take care of some things first (remember the whole job situation), he needs to stabilize things in his life. Eddie has told me that he like’s the pace of our relationship, enjoys the sex and just wants to see how things progress (hmm, that all screams, “no commitment for you!”) At least for now. (more…)
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